Choices and Alignment
Recently, I had to make a choice: walk away from something that wasn’t aligned with me or stay and try to make the best of it even though I felt terrible. I waffled back and forth because I didn’t want to hurt anyone (including myself) and making that decision wasn’t pleasant, but I had to because the thing wasn’t in alignment with who I am, my life and my goals.
Leading up to my decision, I had felt that I needed to stay and help and push the thing into alignment. What a crazy thing to do, right?
I don’t know much, but I know this:
You cannot force the Universe
And I tried. I really did try.
I had been staying and pushing even though my intuition was screaming at me to run away because I was feeling worse and worse everyday. (and I do not like feeling bad)
SO I made the choice and well, now I’m dealing with the consequences of that choice.
And while I do feel better today because it’s all said and done now, there is part of me that feels bad because I unintentionally hurt someone and for that I am sorry.
Now what does this have to do with the Law of Attraction?
Vibrations and Alignment
Since I started to study the Law of Attraction, I’ve gotten really good at feeling my vibration and the vibrations of the people around me. Being an empath also helps with this and with a bit of practice, my sensitivity to these vibrations has gotten really fine tuned so when I am around people or situations that are not at the same frequency that I vibrate at, I feel it with every ounce of my being.
Now, I realize I can’t change the vibrations of other people or situations. I try to deal with them as they are as best I can. I offer help and well, in this situation, I tried to do the best I could to help raise the vibration.
It was no use though so I had to make a choice: Stay or Leave.
After months of banging my head against the wall, feeling totally miserable, I realized that I couldn’t stay because I know deep down I can only handle so much negative vibration from others. As an empath, I feel what other people feel even when I don’t want to. It’s a great thing and a shitty thing all at the same time.
So my questions for you are do you stay in a situation that feels vibrationally bad or wrong? Or do you walk away? Do you try to fix the situation or person who isn’t vibrating at the same frequency as you? Or do you remove yourself from the situation?
I have to say that making that choice, while it was hard, was the best thing for me to do for me right now. I feel more aligned with the Universe again.
So in sum, it’s all about choice. What you choose. Do you listen to your intuition or ignore it?
Who do you choose to surround yourself with and how do you feel when you are around them?
What situations do you choose to be in and how do you feel when you are in them?
It’s all about choices and alignment.