Go with the flow!
You ever feel like you are pushing and pulling in your life? Following systems, doing what others say you HAVE to do to achieve your dreams and have success? Are you trying to force something to happen your life or business?
Just stop. Stop what you are doing and go with the flow!
Tune the others out and listen to your heart and find your own flow.
Lately I have been feeling very irritated. Bugged. Annoyed.
When I get online and start working, I am fine as long as I stay off of social media meaning, I have to stay off of the internet. When I get on social media, I get distracted and start reading other people’s shit. No matter where I go online, I see crap like this!
“Don’t stop! Don’t give up! Be yourself! Stay plugged in! Do the work! Stop whining! Work until your fingers bleed! Give up everything and work work work!! Ignore your life/family/friends! If you want to be successful, you have to [fill in the blank]”
And I am fucking sick of it!
Because if I wanted to work 18 hours a day, I would have stayed in the laboratory where I had to clock in and out everyday, be on call and give of myself all of the time even when I didn’t want to.
I left that life behind and the reason I choose to work from home and for myself is so that I don’t have to work 18 hours a day, 70 hours a week or more.
Just because I do not work all day, take a day off now and again and seek balance in my business and my life does not mean I am not dedicated or do not want to be successful.
I am dedicated. Very dedicated to my writing. Very dedicated to helping others.
I work everyday and I do take time off . Now I don’t necessarily publish all that I write, but I am here, every day.
I strive to live a balanced and happy life, one in which my business is a part of, but not the ONLY thing I do.
So what’s with me getting so annoyed by the shit online that I keep reading? Why in the hell do I keep reading it when it bothers me?
Because I let it and because I keep reading it like an idiot!
I am taking responsibility for my actions and feelings. Getting annoyed by other people’s advice is my fault.
So today I am choosing something different!
Fuck what they have to say! Fuck what they are doing! Seriously!
I have my own flow, my own rhythm and I run my business and my life how I see fit.
Go with the flow….your flow…whatever it may be!